Postures And Patterns That Push People Away

• Leaning in too much
• Speaking too fast
• Getting too close
• Placing your hands on your hips
• Crossing your arms
• Clasping your hands below your waist
• Standing too tall or stiff
• Pushing your voice from your throat or chest

...And Those That Make You Look Apprehensive

• Slouching
• Talking too slowly or too quietly
• Not maintaining eye contact 
• Fidgeting, tapping, shuffling feet, swaying
• Lowering your head